If we go back far enough there are many societies where there were strong Matriarchs. Why did that change? We need to fell old systems that aren’t working.
FYI my Hubby and I are at 45 years and counting. Though I do know many childless couples and single folks… some widowers and widows with and without children. Too many couples just give up instead of actually working as a team.
One of the Indian states has a matriarchal structure for inheritance. But crimes against women are increasing.
My guess about patriarchy is that men wanted a woman to bear only their children and built structures to keep them homebound and subservient. They never saw a woman as an independent, thinking being.
I think there were several Native Peoples that have matriarchal structures. I remember reading about; “Boudica, also known as Boadicea, was a British Celtic warrior queen who led a major uprising against the Roman occupation of Britain in the 1st century CE. She was the queen of the Iceni tribe, and her revolt was sparked by Roman mistreatment of her family and tribe after the death of her husband, King Prasutagus.” And then there are the Amizonian Women… and what about the African tribe of Warrior Women that a moviw was made out of…
History is usually written by ‘men’ – the men who won…
Reena, I liked how you used the tree as a symbol of the patriarchy. As women, we are all looking forward to the fall of the patriarchy! Well done, my friend.
Makes me feel sad for the tree 🌳 In our society there used to be a gulmohar tree, which was important to my mother and I. When it fell, we felt like we lost someone special.
We have witnessed the falling of a 30-year old tree due to heavy rains, and it saddened onlookers to find the timber being chopped away with electrical saws.
However, I used a tree as a symbol of patriarchy here to denote its deep rootedness in Indian society.
Ooh, really well done, Reena!
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Thank you, Chris!
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If we go back far enough there are many societies where there were strong Matriarchs. Why did that change? We need to fell old systems that aren’t working.
FYI my Hubby and I are at 45 years and counting. Though I do know many childless couples and single folks… some widowers and widows with and without children. Too many couples just give up instead of actually working as a team.
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One of the Indian states has a matriarchal structure for inheritance. But crimes against women are increasing.
My guess about patriarchy is that men wanted a woman to bear only their children and built structures to keep them homebound and subservient. They never saw a woman as an independent, thinking being.
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I think there were several Native Peoples that have matriarchal structures. I remember reading about; “Boudica, also known as Boadicea, was a British Celtic warrior queen who led a major uprising against the Roman occupation of Britain in the 1st century CE. She was the queen of the Iceni tribe, and her revolt was sparked by Roman mistreatment of her family and tribe after the death of her husband, King Prasutagus.” And then there are the Amizonian Women… and what about the African tribe of Warrior Women that a moviw was made out of…
History is usually written by ‘men’ – the men who won…
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Informative! The quote is bang on.
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Beautiful use of metaphor, Reena. Will the matriarchy ever show its power? The way marriages are coming, it seems a big storm is about to come.
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Old structures are falling apart. 70 pc of families I know have 35+ yo single members – unmarried or divorced.
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Excellent metaphor, Reena!
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Thank you so much, Yvette!
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Reena, I liked how you used the tree as a symbol of the patriarchy. As women, we are all looking forward to the fall of the patriarchy! Well done, my friend.
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Thanks a ton, Colleen, for focussing on patriarchy, not the tree 😊.
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I see it that way too, Reena.
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❤️❤️
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Beautiful work. At least one of us notices and mourns. Replant!
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Thanks, Ron!
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Lovely poem
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Thanks, Sadje!
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You’re welcome
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Your fascinating title, and image of the fallen tree, grabbed my attention. I enjoyed your thought processes, and use of metaphors.
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Thank you so much, Eugi!
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You’re welcome, Reena.
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Reena, this is very powerful, an evocative reflection on the silent aftermath of pain.❤️
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Thanks a ton, Ange!
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Reena you beautifully show how huge moments to some a nought but tiny ripples to others 💜
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True that. Thank you, Willow!
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During a rare hurricane in the UK, we had a place called seven oaks, and many trees were lost that day.
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Natural death of trees is still more acceptable than being cut down mercilessly by humans.
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That is true.
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Makes me feel sad for the tree 🌳 In our society there used to be a gulmohar tree, which was important to my mother and I. When it fell, we felt like we lost someone special.
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We have witnessed the falling of a 30-year old tree due to heavy rains, and it saddened onlookers to find the timber being chopped away with electrical saws.
However, I used a tree as a symbol of patriarchy here to denote its deep rootedness in Indian society.
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I really enjoyed your metaphor usage, Reena. Thank you for participating.
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Thanks, Robbie!
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