In my personal opinion, this road leads to misery because you cannot please everyone all the time. I would characterize myself as a recovering people pleaser.
I can blame my personality flaw on the fact that I grew up without a mother who would/ might have given me the confidence to be myself at all times, instead of seeking approval from others. Or perhaps it was an inherent trait.
Nevertheless, I have realized that this is a weakness that leads to being unhappy most of the time. As the saying goes; “……You cannot please all the people all the time”, so it had to change. I’m proud to say that I’m ( I think) 50% there. Who knows, maybe I’ll get rid of this weakness before I kick the bucket!
the hurt that you made is unlike anyone else, no one else; they’re not you, you who i adore profoundly, you who i care genuinely, you who i love passionately; so the hurt, is unlike anyone else, because they are just some random people who chose to disrespect me, some random individual who chose to use me for their own good, some random friends who chose to be there for me only when they need me, some random relatives who chose to abandon me despite all the help i gave, some random acquaintances who chose to simply just pass by and walk away.
they are not you; you are not just some random people, some random individual, some random friend, some random relative, some random acquaintance; you are the only constant love i choose to be in my life; my constant rainfall (even when i get soaked to…
Sunset serenity
sillhouetted leaves
tremble in the wind
hushes the sky to sleep
orange halo dims
the day fades
dusky grey shimmers
no chirps on the roof
a moment of peace
distilled serene
a pause before life
begins again
the sun is going down
serenely like my mind
no longer do the thoughts
rush untamed windswept
a molecule of respite
in sunset serenity.
Serene sun within the sky that plays my dreams I only wished I was listening to different music on some days then maybe I would not have to listen to the constant fights of the day that come from everyone in may but it doesn’t seem to work like that because my mind operates in a different way than everyone else’s where instead of communicating through words how I feel I rather listen to my own thoughts and be alone but I am always around everyone else all the time and loving the same person in my dreams but when focusing my center of attention on my consciousness it draws me into a different filter of my own perspective of reality and I know I should spend less time focusing on everyone else’s thoughts of me and just focus on my own selflessness but instead I am worried about others…
Clouds are highlighted on the horizon, reflecting the last rays of the sun’s waning light back toward the ground, creating a vivid sky with colors melting as the evening settles in. Warm yellows, bright reds, burning oranges, are all parts of the setting that attract our eyes and soothe our spirit while generating a calm serene tranquility. At sunset, the sun is low on the horizon, and the rays of sunlight pass through more air in the atmosphere than they do when the sun is higher in the sky. Thus, when sunlight passes through more atmosphere, this longer path can be 10 times greater through the atmosphere, so it has many more particles in it that will scatter the light. Sunlight is composed of all the colors of the rainbow and at sunset, sunlight has travelled through a much thicker amount of atmosphere, causing the blue light that we see…