We are given a framework of life in the years of growing up – it outlines history, expectations, dreams. Then we move back and forth to find a comfortable slot to rest our feet.
We rationalize our actions by correlating it with one of the pieces in the framework. We blame someone else for being outside the frame.
Why don’t we realize that all we need to live is jump out of the framework?
reliving the past
awaiting the next moment
wasting it again

To answer your question – because sometimes, it is scary to try something new.
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That is also a perspective.
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I am late to get around reading the haibuns Reena, but I really like what you’ve written! We are human. If we find ourself off point, blaming someone else can happen – problem is, there is no learning in that tactic.
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I agree. We rationalize our actions by blaming it on circumstances, history or traditions too. Thanks!
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we blame someone else – are too often this stinking thinking overpowers even the best of us, well done Reena, waiting never expressed better
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Thank you so much! Your appreciation means a lot to me.
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my pleasure Reena, you have a distinct writing style, it is very inspiring.
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Thanks again!
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Good observation: “we rationalize our actions by correlating it with one of the pieces in the framework.”
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It happens most of the time. Thanks!
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I like your ideas here. I read a call for being present and open to fresh perceptions and experiences whether expected or not.
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You are right. Thanks, Janice!
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